Love, the one theme that I was trying to deflect but then gave up. I am nowhere telling you about this.
No one in this world can specify what love is because everyone has their explanation of love. Love is this elegant feeling of giving whatever you have to a person/thing you love the most and ask nothing in return. love is patient and understanding; it approaches the other with love. It does not have a usury mentality. It's been said that we really only fall in love with threepeople in our lifetime.
Often our first is when we are young, in high school even. It's the idealistic love-the one that seems like the fairy tales we read as children.
Falling In Love the 2nd Time: The Hard Love The second is supposed to be our hard love the one that teaches us lessons about who we are and how we often want or need to be loved.Falling In Love the 3rd Time: The Love that Lasts And the third is the love we never see coming. The one that usually looks all wrong for us and that destroys any surviving purposes we clung to about what love is supposed to be.
And lastly, Self-love is the first love. If we do not honour, respect, value and admire ourselves, no one else will. So this was only I want to explain.